I live my life in fear of “what-ifs”. I’m sure this isn’t new to anyone, we all wonder about the “ifs” in our lives, and we are in constant fear of them too.
What if I get sick?
What if I get rejected?
What if I get hurt?
What if, what if, what if.
I’m realizing that continually worrying about these situations doesn’t make our lives any better. Worrying about “what ifs” doesn’t protect us from those scenarios, it just makes us more scared. Worrying about the next danger lurking in the shadows makes our lives harder, not easier. It makes it harder to live a full and abundant life and it makes it harder to serve Jesus whole-heartedly.
A majority of the time, I worry about getting some weird illness and sometimes that stops me from loving like I should. But I’m learning that it’s silly to worry because I’ve already been saved. Jesus saved me by His grace when he died on the cross and that isn’t just a one-time thing. He knows about those dangers I can so easily preoccupy myself with and he is going to keep saving me from them through his grace.
Its’ through his grace that I’ve never contracted a parasite when I’ve gone to a foreign country.
It’s through his grace that I’ve never gotten lice while being in such close contact with children who could have it.
It’s through his grace I got accepted into college.
It’s through his grace that I wake up every morning alive and healthy.
His grace isn’t just in the good things either, it’s in the bad just as much as the good. Without him saving me from things I perceived as “good,” I would be in some big trouble right now.
He loves us and he knows us and he’s going to keep saving us.
In light of all this, I’m gonna stop worrying about the “what if’s.”
There’s this quote from my favourite book that I love, it says, “He didn’t love people the way that Hallmarks says to love people, he loved them linebacker style, in a full contact way.”
That’s how I want to love and help people. Full on, without fear of anything that may happen to me because the truth is, when we can fully forget ourselves and our worries and love others first thinking about their needs above our own, beautiful, significant, life-changing things happen and that’s better than any “safe” life I could ever imagine for myself.
2 thoughts on “When “What If” Threatens To Take Over”
Maybe you gotta read “how to stop worrying and start living” by dale Carnegie … It helped me to live in the present and not worry about future
Thank you! I will check it out!